My family and I have been really busy for attending wedding dinners even since the ghost month is over.... I believe we are not the only family who is having the problem.... I dont understand why... Getting married is between two ppl or should say to family... y need to trouble other ppl.... if the person wanted to wish you they will wish you.... you dont have to invite them... they will wish you whole heartedly and they will show you their sincerity... dont you think so? Especially in small village like ours.... once they get married they will start "throwing" invitation cards... regardless how close are you to them.... or you dont even say hi to each other when you bump into each other.... Wedding dinner/lunch is like so commercial now... ppl take the advantage to earn extra money.... one invitation card only cost a few cents... but the return is like how many thousands times more than that.... u dont believe me? Get married and invite the whole village or any acquaintances that u know.... and let me know how much you earn!!!